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I Love Dressing Up . . .

Around the holidays!  My friends also really like to get dressed up.  It’s an excuse to get fancy. –Beth Riesgraf

I speculate about half the people look at the holiday season with great disdain.  You have the nonsense of Black Friday and any other hopped up Christmas sale event.  You have the obligation of buying gifts for relatives they may see once a year as well as receiving gifts they wouldn’t give to their worst enemy.  You have the displeasure of sitting at the dinner table with relatives with differing political, racial, religious, academic or whatever views.  But at least when you go 636007535808318874_1917013326_fireover to that relative’s home for dinner, you can dress in sweatpants and an ugly Christmas sweater.  Wrong!   Burn that ffffffin thing!  I don’t know when it happened and quiet honestly couldn’t care less why it happened.  People stopped caring about their appearance during the holidays.  We’ve heard the “I want to be comfortable after gorging myself with enough food to feed a third world country” excuse.  Babo sekkiya . . .

If you are part of the other half of people who enjoy thephoto_grid_1480029334426 holidays, you most likely have a game plan in how to deal with the distractions of the holiday season.  You are ready for the relatives you see once in a blue moon and their pendulum-like views on any and everything (Maybe a shot of sambuca or soju will make it easier).  But most importantly, you will dress your holiday best and will be comfortable as you decide whether it’s bulking season or not.  As an individual who has been creating their own style, you are well aware one needs to constantly be on top of their game.  The holiday season is perfect time to experiment.  There is a desire to be comfortable, functional as well as the best dressed person in the room.  And if your relatives criticize the way you dress, are they really your relatives?

One should always go seasonal when picking out the color scheme you choose to wear.  Burgundys, greys, browns, greens are the basic foundation with all of the variations of the aforementioned.  For example, the picture above combines camel overcoat, grey wool trousers, purple and blue paisley tie, navy blue waistcoat, contrast collar blue/grey striped shirt, light blue IMG_20151225_131920pocket square and cedar/plaid brogues make for an appealing Thanksgiving outfit.  In the picture to the left, olive green blazer, hunter green gingham shirt, burgundy polka dot knit tie, poinsettia lapel pin, and a double sided pocket square to pull the Christmas outfit (from last December) together.  As the picture dictates, do be afraid of adding a splash of color to bring your ensemble together.  Creating your own style involves “walking like you own it!”  Confidence in what you wear and how you wear it is paramount.  Your efforts to stay the course as well as stay away from appearing most substandardly should never wane.  As with all things in life, we should always look to learn more and improve our overall being as well as those around us.  No matter who you are or what you believe in, enjoy the holiday season and strive to be better next year.  Until next time, 메리 크리스마스!

 

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Dressing . . .

is a way of life. –Yves Saint Laurent

While elsewhere in the world, it’s just a regular weekend.  Here, in the States it is a time we honor those who gave the greatest sacrifice for their country.  It’s Memorial Day weekend.  I am not a military honk by any stretch.  I respect those who enlist and dedicate their time to the Army, Navy, Air Force and Marines, etc.  Unfortunately, I have seen over the decades the business per usual commercialization of this day.  It is what it is.  It is bothersome when people forget what the day is for.  It’s not about getting drunk, eating stuff off the grill and stuffing your face until it explodes.  No matter how one feels about America, its government and all the other stuff, take a moment of silence to honor those who gave their lives for this country.

In addition to this, you can be honorable too by not dressing like a frat boy. 20160526_190928  I am aware 20160526_191747sometimes one just does not feel like dressing nice.  I understand but keep in mind, it can at times (depending on the person and situation) become a bad habit.  You’re doing so well at the gym and you decide to skip one day.  Then two days the next week.  Then comes the “I’ll take a week off because I need it” excuse.  Rubbish!  I am not stating it is wrong to have a day where you just don’t feel like it.  But do not let one day domino into many months.

Now, what to wear for that Memorial Day cookout?  Remember, this weekend kicks off the start of Summer even though it doesn’t officially20160526_192617 arrive until sometime in June. If you’re lucky, the weather is perfect and the selections I made for the three pictures you see will be just right.  Wear a nice v-neck t-shirt, henley, button-down or polo shirt.  No tank tops, wife beaters or sleeves that have been manually chopped off a t-shirt with graphics on it.  You’re not at a college weekender.  Wear some nice tailored shorts (no cargo shorts!), linen shorts or pants.  And for the love of Buddha, no jean shorts!  Wear some nice boat shoes, suede wing tips, loafers or trainers.  Go sockless or grab a pair of no show socks.  Please do not enlist the services of the dreaded pair of black socks and slides.  Unless you have a big game coming up, leave them at home.  Also, accessorize!  Have a little bit of pride in your appearance.  Honor those who gave their lives.  And don’t forget the maekjuJal ga!